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Best interests, ICLs and family reports

In short

Since 6 May 2024 the court decides parenting arrangements using a focused list of best-interest factors, with the child's safety the paramount consideration. In some cases the court appoints an Independent Children's Lawyer and orders a family report to help it understand what's best for the child.

Common questions

Does the child get to choose who they live with?
No. The child's views are one factor the court considers, given appropriate weight for their age and maturity — but the court decides, based on the child's overall best interests and safety.
What is an Independent Children's Lawyer?
An ICL is a lawyer appointed to represent the child's best interests (not to take instructions from the child like a normal client). They form an independent view and help the court.

Sources

Last reviewed: 16 July 2026. Court rules and forms change — always confirm the current position with the Court or your lawyer.

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